Bullitt3106,
Man, do I ever feel your pain!!!
My first Bullitt was destroyed by a drunk driver, ($22,000 damage) and I had to drive 1000 miles to Idaho to replace it.
The good thing about you living in California is the state gives you specific rights regarding auto repair.
You do not have to have the car fixed by anyone the insurance company suggests, you can take it to a Rolls-Royce dealer's body shop if that it what you choose. You also have the right to have nothing but new OEM Ford parts installed, and you have the right to be compensated for diminished value after the car is repaired.
Above all, considering your injuries, make damn sure you get a decent lawyer, not one of those guys you see on TV, but from a reputable firm. Call your local BAR Association for recommendations. Let the attorney handle everything ie; your medical care, following through with the car repair, loss of consortium etc. It will be best for your piece of mind and best for you getting made whole again.
I speak this from my experience in the auto repair business and actually being a victim in this same type wreck.
Good luck!